tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17540984.post4286475073623028505..comments2024-03-29T03:41:30.797-04:00Comments on MetaSurfing: Dating Rules for Men Over 40Arpiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05523498791834474508noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17540984.post-45116593706418013612007-11-04T16:57:00.000-05:002007-11-04T16:57:00.000-05:00I wouldn't call it "plagiarizing"... I view this a...I wouldn't call it "plagiarizing"... I view this as almost like "bookmarking". I just add stuff I find interesting, funny , important, or notable in some way and link to the source.<BR/><BR/>I'm curious, though, what were you searching for that this popped up?<BR/><BR/>I'm also curious to know what you mean by "women who leave because they dont [sic] "love" anymore is because they are saving the others ego"... So you're saying that they still love but say otherwise in an utterly selfless act of letting their loved one go because they want to preserve their ego? Or that they don't love anymore because of other reasons but would rather just say "I don't love you anymore" and leave it at that, instead of explaining why (and obviously not wanting or caring or thinking them uncapable of using that information to improve themselves)?<BR/><BR/>I don't want to just be confrontational, but women really are from Venus... or maybe they're just a mess, take your pick.Arpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05523498791834474508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17540984.post-23679298727873398872007-11-04T15:41:00.000-05:002007-11-04T15:41:00.000-05:00Ronnie,Not clear that you plagerised someone else'...Ronnie,<BR/><BR/>Not clear that you plagerised someone else's stuff. the "Dating rules for men over 40" seems like a guide book that every man should follow. If you say that was all in fun, fine, but when i was searching on the internet this popped up, not what i was looking for, but an interesting read. oh and yes I still believe that women who leave because they dont "love" anymore is because they are saving the others ego.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17540984.post-21142360882123961222007-11-03T10:05:00.000-04:002007-11-03T10:05:00.000-04:00LOL... seems someone got a little defensive there....LOL... seems someone got a little defensive there. I'm just re-posting someone else's words.<BR/><BR/>I'm tempted to ask you to examine why this has caused such a strong reaction in you. You obviously are not a regular reader (hell, I don't have many of those) or you'd know I usually just quote things other people post. Yet, you took the effort of writing a reply obviously based on personal experience and what you (think) you'd want from a man, immediately siding with a woman you have absolutely no knowledge of.<BR/><BR/>I'm more and more convinced women really don't know what they want. They think they do, but if they got exactly what they asked for they'd be utterly disappointed, whereas if they get someone that knows how to push their buttons they'll be totally enthralled. It's unfortunate but true. Women pretend (to themselves?) they want no games but it's game on or get out.Arpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05523498791834474508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17540984.post-91194818591676623392007-11-03T07:52:00.000-04:002007-11-03T07:52:00.000-04:00You talk about your wife leaving you because she d...You talk about your wife leaving you because she does not love you anymore. Was it really that simple? Sounds like your prince charming qualites either never existed or fell off your pot belly years ago. Women need to be wined and dined and it takes years to maintain that momentum. Your ex-wife is sparing your feeling, there is clearly more flaws that you have not cared to advertise or your ex-wife is trying to save your ego. Nice ex-wife! You will never be happy (even in friendship) unless the chip gets off your shoulder and you do a deep dive in your personality. I suspect you make those people around you, lie to you about how they feel because you can't handle the truth! Your "rules" speak loudly of your bitterness. The fact you put that much effort into writing that little monolouge proves you want to care, but have some things to get off your chest about relationships and women. Good luck to you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com